Do you have a strong need to please others? When was the last time you told someone “No, I can’t help you with that” or “I have a different opinion”? It can feel risky – emotionally vulnerable – to set limits or assert our needs or opinions (especially if we know they are different than other people’s). Of […]
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Why Being a “Good Girl” Isn’t Always a Good Thing
Let go of good girl syndrome, perfectionism, and people-pleasing and rediscover yourself! Be a good girl. Do as you re told. Don’t talk back. Put others first. Wait your turn. Don’t make trouble. Be quiet and look pretty. Don’t ask for anything or ask Be on your best behavior. People are watching. Don’t embarrass me. Selflessness is a virtue. No one […]